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Poor and working class people of every race understand one another so much better, and more easily, than any of the credentialed folks that I see writing about them. Our entire media apparatus now feels like it's geared toward pointing fingers at poor white people, oblivious to the fact that the non-white people can see themselves on the receiving end of those pointing fingers.

I love your work. I come from a poor background in the upper south, always tested off the charts, started ridding myself of an accent when I was 5 or 6 because I'd already figured out how essential that would be. I ended up working in a factory after college, planning to save up money for law school. Then I helped organize a union there, was elected to first bargaining committee. Moved on from there, mostly by sheer luck, to doing lefty (non-union) political work. Finally surrounded by the rich kids that I'd always been drawn to, had spent my high school and college years with: achievers. But even (especially?) the ones that wanted to help had blind spots that I couldn't get them past. An inability to just see the people they believed that they wanted to help. They're so very different.

Even still, I left that work primarily because, unlike my colleagues, if I continued doing it then I would always be one mild disaster away from poverty. I've been very fortunate since. The only people who could possibly mistake me for working class are the very upper class. My son lives in a world that looks like Disneyland to me, when I view it through the eyes of my childhood, as we do. I've been so very lucky.

Now I move through manufacturing facilities all over the US, occasionally the world. I spend a lot of time in the break rooms close to the floor, and in the smoking sections, because I prefer the company there. I watch a level of integration and ease with one another among different races, at volume, that doesn't exist among the better off. They're elbow to elbow and figure out how to manage it without DEI/HR administrator intervention (but for how much longer?).

I moved relatively near my family (I've lived all over the eastern half of the country). I'm a single dad now and I travel a lot. I not only can use my family's help with that situation, I want my son to be around them. My sister works at Wal-Mart; if I ever catch this kid being as disdainful of that as I would've been . . . well he won't let me catch him doing it twice. My grandmother still says she's going to "warsh" some clothes, and my son tries not to get caught scowling, just like I did.

I slip in and out of working class diction, my accent grows. I'm probably saddling my child with class markers that won't necessarily serve him well where he's likely going, and I'm not unhappy about it (though we worry about everything, don't we?).

All of this (unnecessarily, and I apologize) to point out why this work really touches me. And it's much more important than almost anyone realizes. You're so right about people wanting different things. If you've decided that you don't want to be defined by a career, by meritocratic achievement, in this country, well (a) that is perfectly natural, and will almost certainly allow you to have fewer ethical quandaries in your life and (b) good luck staying afloat. Almost nothing here is truly geared toward helping you. Some people could do a lot "more" in tthe world, but in making the effort would have to give away some crucial part of their soul. So they don't, and don't want to. These are the best people that humanity has yet produced, the ones who hold up the world.

The people who most claim to want to help simply do not and will not have a level of understanding that would allow them to do that. They've moved on from being largely ineffectual and distracted, and have become harmful at that effort, unbelievably counterproductive. Comforting the comfortable, and afflicting the afflicted.

Sorry to ramble on this way, and in public no less. You touched me today, and I thank you for it. I'm grateful for what you do, and hope you find a way to keep doing it.

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Stacie K.'s avatar

This might be my favorite one so far. I've lived in the South my whole life and this is so spot on. Thank you.

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